So I'm feeling better than I was the other day, but I'm still upset about a lot. I don't know if it was a good idea yet, but I wrote Taurus on FaceBook and this is what I wrote to him:
"First off I don't want to argue or fight.
The only negative thing i'm going to say is that i think you're being rude and childish by keeping the money you're getting for being married to me to support everyone other than the daughter that i spend that money on.
Idk what it is that you think, but you have the house number to call and my mother's cell number. You also have our address on Julia's birth certificate that i mailed you a copy of and you told me you had received.
I AM NOT KEEPING HER FROM YOU. You have numerous ways of getting a hold of me to see her. Yet you CHOOSE not to. The only reason i'm writing this is because my parents literally cannot afford to pay for mine and Julia's bills that we have. And the economy in AZ is so bad that every where i apply to tells me that i'm not needed.
Don't think that you're just free sailing because i've already taken drastic measures to make sure that you pay me that money until we're divorced which is LEGALLY what you're supposed to do. Idk why you care so much anyways because as soon as we're divorced you can turn around and Marry Dee and get even more money than just for me because all those other kids.
You have one of two choices.
ONE: Pay the money either voluntarily so your daughter doesn't starve or go without the things she needs to or be forced to do so by your command.
or TWO: Sign over your rights and get rid of all financial responsibility for her and know that i'm taking good care of her.
If you decide on the second one, whenever she gets old enough to chose for herself to meet you, i'll let her and you can beleive that. After this past year i'm a completely different person and i don't have pregnancy hormones controlling my actions.
Either way YOU need to make a decision and make one NOW. Otherwise it'll be made for you. Legally in the state of Arizona you've already abandoned her and i could petition the court to take your rights away without your permission. So you need to either give her completely to me or start acting like the father to her that you claim you are.
I'm done playing your bullshit games. I don't care what you do with your life. But when it affects my daughter, that's when i get aggressive. You have a limited time to answer this before i start making calls so i suggest you get on replying to me. WITHOUT yelling or arguing. "
Honestly, I'm not expecting much. If anything I'm expecting him to just go on and on about how I DID things wrong and how I SHOULD have knocked down his door and shoved Julia in his arms. Ugh.
All I know is that even though it's going to start turmoil and stuff is going to hit the fan soon. I know that soon things should be settled. All I know is that I'm drowning in all these bills that I need to pay and he's just skating along paying for another woman and four other kids! I mean, how right is that? Does he honestly expect me to just sit here and watch my daughter get closer to starving and do nothing? Well he's just in for a rude awakening.
I don't really know what else to say at the moment but I'm sure I'll be back.
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